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How To Write A Story That Connects With Readers

June 29, 2018 by Joanna Penn 5 Comments

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Writing is a kind of telepathy. You write words on a page and at a different place and time, another human will read it and they will understand your mind at that moment. You aren't there but they read your thoughts.

write a story that connects with readersThat's how you can change people's lives with your words. 

But only if you share your truth, your story and your heart. In today's article, Alysia Seymour shares her tips for writing a story that connects with readers.

Most writing tips are focused on practical steps to take to outline your story, complete a draft, get proper edits and formatting done before sending it to be published.

These are amazing tips for those of us who are just starting out in writing and need some guidance.

But what if you want to know more about writing a fictional story that connects to readers? Or, how to inspire readers with your storytelling?

Before all the practical steps, you want to know how to emotionally connect to your readers that leaves them feeling strong emotions throughout your story. That’s what keeps them reading.

story geniusIf you haven’t yet read Story Genius by Lisa Cron then I suggest you get a copy. She explains beautifully how to tap into that emotional connection.

[From Joanna: Lisa was on The Creative Penn podcast talking about Story Genius. You can listen here.]

To get started today with telling an emotionally moving or inspirational story, I’ve discovered through my own writing process that a few things are key, and I want to share them with you.

I wasn’t someone who was “called” to be a writer, but I discovered it out of my love for books and fictional stories. After I completed my first novel, I realized how healing writing was for me.

Which brings me to the first key step in writing an emotionally impactful story.

(1) Write a story that is healing for YOU

Find a moment from your own life that brings up difficult or painful emotions. If you don’t want to revisit painful memories, then choose a moment that left you a changed person, for better or worse.

Just find that moment — maybe you have several — and use them as the premise for the internal and emotional journey your character will go on in the story.

Of course, you want to change them up. Use your imagination to shift some of the events and people around to make it a fictional story and not a memoir of your life. If you can heal through writing your fictional story, it will be inevitable that your readers will find healing in it as well.

(2) Be vulnerable

vulnerable deerI know it can feel scary to tap into that vulnerable state. It often can make us feel anxious or uncertain about how to move forward. We’re afraid of being seen and judged for who we really are, or what we really think.

But, when we can write our characters and story from a vulnerable state, healing our own wounds as we do, then our story shifts into something more than words on a page.

It becomes a magical tale of the victim becoming the hero, revealing flaws—not as something to be ashamed of, but as beautiful scars of all that’s been overcome and to be worn with pride.

And through the courage or revealing your own scars within your storytelling, you allow the reader to get in closer to you, which is what you want.

(Remember, you don’t have to be literal in writing these moments of your life. People don’t even need to know they are personal. But it will show in your writing that you are deeply connected to the story.)

(3) Don’t underestimate your own power

It’s easy as writers, especially when we’re first getting started, to doubt our skills and knowledge of the practice. We can feel timid and unsure about our writing and start saying “Who am I to do this?”.

empowerment super heroComing from this place only creates limitation. You must remember the power you carry within you. You have the power to heal yourself and others with your writing. You have the power to teach yourself what you don’t yet know about writing. You have the power to write a truly inspiring and impactful story that will change lives.

Believe in yourself and your power. If you can do even this one step, it will change how you write. If you can come from a place of empowerment rather then doubt, you can write a story that will touch lives.

Those are the 3 key steps to writing a story that will connect with readers and leave them feeling emotionally moved at the end of the story. These steps are simple, but not always easy.

So be patient with yourself as you test them out. Tapping into vulnerability when you haven’t visited those spaces in a while (if ever) can be challenging and you may even feel blocked by fear, unable to reach that state.

That’s okay.

Just keep working on it and rewriting the moments from your own life into your fictional story to heal yourself. This alone will help you open up and be vulnerable with your writing, one step at a time.

The writing journey isn’t meant to be perfect. In fact, I believe that it’s far more meaningful the more imperfect it is. Because it’s in those imperfect moments within the story—the ones that sprawl onto the page unconsciously—that leave you . . . and therefore your readers, in awe.

Have you practised being vulnerable in your writing in order to forge a deeper connection with readers? Please leave your thoughts below and join the conversation.

Alysia SeymourAlysia Seymour is a fiction author and Story Guide. She is a self-published author of The Raven Dreams, with another novel currently in the works. She created a one-on-one transformational journey through rewriting your life story into a fictional short story to heal, grow, and create life your way. You can start the journey today.

(Deer photo by Rebecca Prest on Unsplash. Hands and rose photo by Evan Kirby on Unsplash.)

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  1. Karen Wyatt says

    July 1, 2018 at 4:48 pm

    I’ve written quite a lot about my father’s suicide death, which was devastating for me. It took many years for me to have the courage to put those emotions on paper but it was very healing for me and powerful for readers as well. So far I’ve only written non-fiction pieces about his death but I plan to use it in my fiction writing in the future.

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  2. JazzFeathers says

    July 12, 2018 at 2:04 am

    Fantastic post!
    I do believe in the healing power of stories. I actually believe stories came into existance for this very reason. To allow people to share their pains, fears and wounds so to offer what they learned and to receive the awareness they are not alone.

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  3. Marie Korman says

    July 12, 2018 at 6:29 pm

    What a great article! Your advice on being vulnerable was spot on! I recently posted an article (link is below in case anyone is interested) about a conference I attended and shared my struggles with social anxiety as a born introvert. It also contained a horribly embarrassing bathroom incident but figured sharing was a way to lighten the tone. I was terrified of sharing one of my biggest fears (and embarrassments) with the world but knew it would likely help others who might also be struggling with this issue. It worked and I received a lot of great feedback.

    Sometimes being a good writer means being vulnerable…………

    https://mariekorman.tumblr.com/post/174873451046/whats-it-like-to-attend-dfwcon-for-the-first

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  4. Jean Cogdell says

    July 24, 2018 at 1:48 pm

    Thanks for a great post. Finding an emotional connection in my writing is hard. It’s hard to allow myself to be vulnerable. I wonder if all writers have this problem or just newbies. So a new goal for myself. Bleed on the page. 🙂

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  5. Al Kaye says

    May 11, 2019 at 3:48 pm

    I have often been told that luck is the outstanding factor in writing a best-selling novel. But I don’t believe it. I think a highly emotionally charged novel plus other factors make a novel desperately desired by many readers. Currently I’m watching the movie “Gone with the Wind,” it has outstanding characterization, (Scarlet O”Hara, Rhett Butler);it’s also dramatizes America’s most traumatic moment, the Civil War; it also has a lot to say about misplaced love affairs. In my opinion it was not sheer ;luck that made a success of this novel, it was an ability to arouse people innermost feelings and thoughts.

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